Although Stardew Valley has a two-gender character creation system, the only difference between the male and female farmers are a few lines of dialogue and the pronouns that NPCs use when referring to them. The indie darling farming sim places no gender-based restrictions on the player, and players can romance any of the eligible bachelors and bachelorettes, regardless of their farmer’s gender.

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